In our team of success, people really think of me as self confidence. But they do not know about the curved road that led to my confidence.
Growing up like most children, I got to get rid of the joke of my classmates. My hair, clothes, even my grandparents did not have a restriction on my living arrangement. The constant attack of negative energy made me self-critical and created great suspicion for my little self. My answer to puritanism was the responsibility of others’ ridicule But it limited me to remain in the area of my comfort and avoided the challenges, thinking it would save me from justice and failure. It was nothing but increased my frustration and reduced my ambition
Knowledge of my grandmother had a major effect on changing my mindset and moving me towards greater self-confidence. One day she had asked me to remember above all this: Know yourself, to know yourself, Should be comfortable with who you are and the choices you make. Your opinion about you is only one which is important, do not come in the trap of trying to fit an image of someone else’s ideal person. When you decide to relax with yourself, then you will pay attention to enhancing your love. You see every failure as a learning experience and use that knowledge to help you succeed next time. You are afraid to face those challenges that are in front of you.
This ability to know and love yourself has enhanced my self-confidence. I always think about that conversation with my grandmother. Since then, I have now decided to fear negative comments or experiences.
This increase in confidence is also due to my glorious moments in life- my grandmother is buying a new car. At first I thought that she could not afford any dream. I have the same loans and bills and problems, which are in their mid 20s but I know myself I know that there is the ability to create opportunities to make extra money in my favor. I know that I can reconfigure my budget. And I know that my grandmother is watching happiness on her face, it is a sight to see that some things can compete. With all my knowledge,
how can I fail?